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One of the things I can't stand is when someone is mad at you and they won't tell you why. They want you to be sorry, but you can't be if you don't know what the heck you did wrong! How are you supposed to apologize if you don't know what you are apologizing for? How can you fix the problem if you don't know what the problem is? That's right: you can't.
Why do people do this?